Monday, May 12, 2014

Explosive decisions: A Drop Dead Diva Recap


This week’s Drop Dead Diva was absolutely explosive as we rush with open arms to the end of the series.  I used to think we were heading to a nice tie up nicely into a kind of happily ever after, but after last night I have no clue what kind of ride we are in for coming up.

Right away, the episode jumped right into knocking you in the “feels” with a case about a young boy with a gender identity condition.  You know what?  I really hate that term, and it did come up later in the episode in a way that did come off like a disability or mental disorder.  This has been a hot topic for years now as we broaden our ideas about gender and what makes someone female vs male.  At what point are you one or the other?  Are you ever really fully one or the other?  What is preference or choice and what is natural and instilled in us?  Ultimately I don’t know, and it would appear that not many other do either.    So, how do we make sure we are fair to everyone, and yet mitigate risks and respect privacy while promoting equality?  The answer is that no matter what, it’s a grey area.

In this episode a young child that identifies as boy risks his scholarship and future of his right to gender association with a school who demands that they identify with the genetics of a female.  It’s hard, because you want to say you want to protect the children (it is technically a safety hazard to have a young girl in the men’s room, dressed as a boy or not), but you also want the child to express themselves in an environment that allows them to grow in a healthy well-adjusted way.  To be told that it’s not okay to be who you are can cause serious identity issues in later life, we see that now… But, we haven’t always, and unfortunately we are in the hands of an uninformed majority.

In the world of Grayson, this week he is trying a homicide that seems to be railroading his client.  However, the first rule of diva is that no case is exactly as it is presented and soon Grayson figures out he’s defending a guilty man.  How’s that for an ethics violation?  I mean, here you are trying to fight for a man’s life, who brutally murdered an innocent woman because she didn’t want to date him.  You would think that, if he truly felt that his client was guilty, that he could recuse himself and have the firm’s support.  Not at all, in fact the honorable Owen French insists Grayson fight for the rights of the scumbag!  Yeah not happy with Owen.

I’m even less than happy with Kim, who decides to second chair the transgender case and foolishly tries to get Sam diagnosed as a mental disorder.  The thing that I find grossest is that she honestly believed that it was okay to stand before a judge and argue that the child was disabled.  There is nothing wrong with someone being who they are, ever!  If my son were to identify as a woman, the only thing I would worry about is can I trade his hot wheels for Barbie heels.  A child is a child first and standing there in a court of law and stating that they are sick when all they are doing is being themselves you have the mental disorder.  Word!

Owen and Stacy are fighting battles of their own this week as Owen’s want to shower his beloved with everything he thinks she deserves is leading her to feel like a wife without a ring.  Stacy is a strong and independent spirit and gifts are overwhelming, but deep down I think what she really wants is stability.  So what’s more stable than a husband, boom Owen proposes.  Yea, we are going to ignore how fast that was. 

In the world of murder, Grayson finds a loophole which usually is good; however this one frees a murderer.  The mistake he made was telling Owen about a huge mistake forcing Owen to take his case and call Grayson as a witness.  So unknowingly, Grayson made himself a lynch pin in a case to free a scum sucking bottom feeder.  How does Owen sleep at night?  Then again this is the man that helped put away his brother for fraud.  If I were Stacy I’d be more concerned about that behavior than his brother’s fraud. 

The ending of this debacle of an episode is what set the whole show on fire.  In a courageous move a compassionate principle decides to off “Sam” a place in a new more tolerate school, so yes there was a bolt of happiness right before a major tragedy.  The angry father of the murdered girl decides he can’t let the man who killed his baby walk, and let’s face it I couldn’t either, and declares vengeance, if vengeance is firing multiple rounds into Grayson Kent.  Just when I thought the ship was sinking… Now I’m holding my breath till episode 9.

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